Life lessons to learn from Indian Sweets

मिठाई से सीखने के लिए जीवन पाठ

Life lessons to learn from Indian  Sweets

Jalebi - a sweet:
Size does not matter, nature matters, be sweet!

Rasagulla:
No matter how much life squeezes you, always maintain your true form!

Laddu:
Bundi is made of laddus, everything is done with little effort!

Sohan Papdi:
Everyone may not like you, but the creator never lost courage, he will never leave his company!

Besan Laddu:
Shattering under pressure is not the last, that too is the initiative to give a great life form!

Gulab Jaamun [sweet dish ]
Being soft is not a weakness!

Kaju Katli [Cashew slice ]
Always shine like a diamond!







मिठाई से सीखने के लिए जीवन पाठ

Life lessons to learn from Indian  Sweets

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जलेबी:
आकार मायने नहीं रखता, स्वभाव मायने रखता है, मधुर रहो!

रसगुल्ला:
कोई फर्क नहीं पड़ता कि जीवन आपको कितना निचोड़ता है, सदैव अपना असली रूप बनाये रखें!

लड्डू:
बूंदी-बूंदी से लड्डू बनता, छोटे-छोटे प्रयास से ही सबकुछ होता हैं!

सोहन पापड़ी:
हर कोई आपको पसंद नहीं कर सकता है, लेकिन बनानेवाले ने कभी हिम्मत नहीं हारी, वो अपना साथ कभी नहीं छोडेंगे!

बेसन के लड्डू:
दबाव में बिखर जाना आखिरी नहीं होता, वह भी बढ़िया सा जीवन स्वरुप देंने की पहल होती हैं!

गुलाब जामुन:
सॉफ्ट होना कमजोरी नहीं है!

काजू कतली:
हीरे की तरह सदा चमकते रहो! 💫




Rhea Tuition Classes

Rhea Tuition Classes


Rhea Tuition Classes
Family: Thacker’s family
Working as : Student
Main: Rhea Thacker age 28
Father: P S Thacker 58
Mom: Chanchala Thacker 55
Sister : Deepti Thacker
Brother : Prakash Thacker
Grandfather: Navin Thacker
Grandmother : Nalini Thacker
Boyfriend: Prabhash Jha
Place: Darbhanga
School: Rose Public School
I Rhea Thacker belong to a conservative small and quiet town Darbhanga which belongs to Bihar. We were a happy bunch of middle class people and had very simple life ambitions. I used to live with my brother, sister, grand parents at our family house. My father and grandfather used to run the restaurant business which went by the name of “Subh Mangalam” in our city. They regularly used to take Alfa cab to reach the restaurant every morning and used to return every night at 11 AM with Alfa cab only. This is because Alfa cab is the only trusted cab service provider in our city.
Any way coming to the present day, I was leaving for my English tuitions to one of my distant relatives place who is a popular English teacher in our city. It was an evening batch and the batch was overcrowded with at least 40 plus students. Obviously majority were boys and since I was thoroughly educated in an all girls convent school and never been friends to boys. I thought in my head. My sister and brother who were elder to me also studied in the same tuition.
“I am not feeling Ok.”
Then I said to myself the next minute
“Don’t worry. This feeling will go away”.
Also gradually I started taking attention towards a boy tall, slim and quite handsome. His name was Prabhash Jha. He was a Jhajhi Bihari and a resident of Darbhanga and he also had his native roots in the city itself unlike me. All of the tuition students used to come through Alfa Cab for the classes.
We started commenting each other indirectly and it seemed that both of us were enjoying it. I used to wear lingerie from Alfa.clovia.com to look good. This used to excite him as my figure was displayed properly in those sexy lingerie.
He used to come near me and say
“You are looking very sexy”
This continued for 2 long years after which we both finally completed our matriculation. Both of us joined Rose Public School. My brother Prakash Thacker was already studying in class 12 in the same school and my sister was a passed out of this school some 5 years back and now she was pursuing her MBA from Ranchi after working for 2 years in Microsoft. Alfa Cabs used to drop us to a point and beyond that we both used to walk holding each other’s hands.
One day Prabhash took me to a nearby terrace just outside our school. I was feeling that he would do something naughty and I was quite excited about it. And he suddenly pinned me on the wall and gave me a long kiss lips to lips. I was shivering with joy. And then he hugged me very tightly. I was very excited.
And then we used to repeat it almost every day. We used to attend classes but our mind regularly used to deviate from our studies. Our romance and some alone time was what we enjoyed the most. He regularly used to remind me that which all lingeries are his favourtae from alfa.clovia.com. This continued for 2 long years after which I passed out of my higher secondary school and then moved to another city for education. Then started our long distance relationship.  
I moved to Delhi to complete my education and then started working in Adidas. I loved my job in Adidas and I regularly used to wear formal clothes from Zara and H&M and regularly used to come by Alfa Cab to my office. I continued working there for 3 long years and regularly kept in touch with my long distance boyfriend Prabhash Jha. I also used to video call every weekend with my brother, sister and my grand parents and parents. Right now my Sister completed her MBA and she was also working in Ranchi in Google. My brother had also started his internship at Honeywell office in Mumbai. My mother was buzy in searching a suitable match for my sister. I visited my family home during Diwali and noticed that my grandfather has become quite thin. I also noticed that my father was quite irritated and he started having short temper. I felt that something is not right at my house. I shared the same with my brother and sister and we started finding reasons. I also shared the same with my boyfriend Prabhash Jha. He found out from his friends back at Darbhanga that our restaurant was not performing well because there have been quite new age cafes back at our city. And thus our restaurant was considered to be backward. My fathers debts have increased like anything. And the restaurant was on the verge of financial bankruptcy.
I shared the same with my brother Prakash Thacker and both of us decided to come back to Darbhanga and modernize the restaurant with our experience at metro cities. Our elder sister continued to work at Ranchi. We worked hard day and night and did our best to change the restaurant to a modern age budget café. We also introduced live music at our café which was the very first for our small city. Slowly and gradually we also started taking help of social media like Facebook, Instagram and even FM radio to spread the word about one of the most loved and trusted restaurants in the city. The word started to flow and people started visiting our café. I was thoroughly thrilled and now today after 4 long years of struggle and hard work, we have established the restaurant as a highly successful café in the town. We are all very happy and we have successfully paid all our debts. My father and grandfather are quite happy on our achievement. We recently got our elder sister married and that too at a very famous resort of our town.

My brother will also be soon married to his long time girlfriend Shreya Sinha. And then finally after some years I will also marry Prabhash Jha. Presently we all are enjoying our life and thanking God for everything. 


Family: Thacker’s family
Working as : Student
Main: Rhea Thacker age 28
Father: P S Thacker 58
Mom: Chanchala Thacker 55
Grandfather: Navin Thacker
Boyfriend: Prabhash Jha
Place: Darbhanga
School: Rose Public School

I Rhea Thacker belong to a conservative small and quiet town Darbhanga which belongs to Bihar. We were a happy bunch of middle class people and had very simple life ambitions.

Any way coming to the present day, I was leaving for my English tuitions to one of my distant relatives place who is a popular English teacher in our city. It was an evening batch and the batch was overcrowded with at least 40 plus students. Obviously majority were boys and since I was thoroughly educated in an all girls convent school and never been friends to boys. I thought in my head.

“I am not feeling Ok.”

Then I said to myself the next minute

“Don’t worry. This feeling will go away”.

Also gradually I started taking attention towards a boy tall, slim and quite handsome. His name was Prabhash Jha. He was a Jhajhi Bihari and a resident of Darbhanga and he also had his native roots in the city itself unlike me. All of the tuition students used to come through Alfa Cab for the classes.

We started commenting each other indirectly and it seemed that both of us were enjoying it. I used to wear lingerie from Alfa.clovia.com to look good. This used to excite him as my figure was displayed properly in that sexy lingerie.
He used to come near me and say

“You are looking very sexy”

This continued for 2 long years after which we both finally completed our matriculation. Both of us joined Rose Public School. Alfa Cabs used to drop us to a point and beyond that we both used to walk holding each other’s hands.

One day Prabhash took me to a nearby terrace just outside our school. I was feeling that he would do something naughty and I was quite excited about it. And he suddenly pinned me on the wall and gave me a long kiss lips to lips. I was shivering with joy. And then he hugged me very tightly. I was very excited.


And then we used to repeat it almost every day. We used to attend classes but our mind regularly used to deviate from our studies. Our romance and some alone time was what. We enjoyed the most. He regularly used to remind me that which all lingeries are his favourtae from alfa.clovia.com. This continued for 2 long years after which I passed out of my higher secondary school and then moved to another city for education. Then started our long distance relationship.  



Please Read and Forward

जैसे ही ट्रेन रवाना होने को हुई,
(समय निकाल कर पढ़े🙏)


एक औरत और उसका पति एक ट्रंक लिए डिब्बे में घुस पडे़।


दरवाजे के पास ही औरत तो बैठ गई पर आदमी चिंतातुर खड़ा था।

जानता था कि उसके पास जनरल टिकट है और ये रिज़र्वेशन डिब्बा है।

टीसी को टिकट दिखाते उसने हाथ जोड़ दिए।

" ये जनरल टिकट है।अगले स्टेशन पर जनरल डिब्बे में चले जाना।वरना आठ सौ की रसीद बनेगी।" 
कह टीसी आगे चला गया।
पति-पत्नी दोनों बेटी को पहला बेटा होने पर उसे देखने जा रहे थे।
सेठ ने बड़ी मुश्किल से दो दिन की छुट्टी और सात सौ रुपये एडवांस दिए थे।
 बीबी व लोहे की पेटी के साथ जनरल बोगी में बहुत कोशिश की पर घुस नहीं पाए थे।
 लाचार हो स्लिपर क्लास में आ गए थे। 
" साब, बीबी और सामान के साथ जनरल डिब्बे में चढ़ नहीं सकते।हम यहीं कोने में खड़े रहेंगे।बड़ी मेहरबानी होगी।" 
टीसी की ओर सौ का नोट बढ़ाते हुए कहा।
" सौ में कुछ नहीं होता।आठ सौ निकालो वरना उतर जाओ।"
" आठ सौ तो गुड्डो की डिलिवरी में भी नहीं लगे साब।नाती को देखने जा रहे हैं।गरीब लोग हैं, जाने दो न साब।" अबकि बार पत्नी ने कहा।
" तो फिर ऐसा करो, चार सौ निकालो।एक की रसीद बना देता हूँ, दोनों बैठे रहो।"

" ये लो साब, रसीद रहने दो।दो सौ रुपये बढ़ाते हुए आदमी बोला।

" नहीं-नहीं रसीद दो बनानी ही पड़ेगी। ऊपर से आर्डर है।रसीद तो बनेगी ही।

चलो, जल्दी चार सौ निकालो।वरना स्टेशन आ रहा है, उतरकर जनरल बोगी में चले जाओ।" 

इस बार कुछ डांटते हुए टीसी बोला।

आदमी ने चार सौ रुपए ऐसे दिए मानो अपना कलेजा निकालकर दे रहा हो।

दोनों पति-पत्नी उदास रुआंसे

ऐसे बैठे थे ,मानो नाती के पैदा होने पर नहीं उसके शोक  में जा रहे हो। 

कैसे एडजस्ट करेंगे ये चार सौ रुपए?

 क्या वापसी की टिकट के लिए समधी से पैसे मांगना होगा? 

नहीं-नहीं। 

आखिर में पति बोला- " सौ- डेढ़ सौ तो मैं ज्यादा लाया ही था। 

गुड्डो के घर पैदल ही चलेंगे। 

शाम को खाना नहीं खायेंगे। 

दो सौ तो एडजस्ट हो गए। 

और हाँ, 

आते वक्त पैसिंजर से आयेंगे। 

सौ रूपए बचेंगे। एक दिन जरूर ज्यादा लगेगा। 

सेठ भी चिल्लायेगा।

 मगर मुन्ने के लिए सब सह लूंगा।मगर फिर भी ये तो तीन सौ ही हुए।"

" ऐसा करते हैं, नाना-नानी की तरफ से जो हम सौ-सौ देनेवाले थे न, अब दोनों मिलकर सौ देंगे। 

हम अलग थोड़े ही हैं। हो गए न चार सौ एडजस्ट।" 

पत्नी के कहा।

 " मगर मुन्ने के कम करना....""

और पति की आँख छलक पड़ी।

" मन क्यूँ भारी करते हो जी। गुड्डो जब मुन्ना को लेकर घर आयेंगी; तब दो सौ ज्यादा दे देंगे। "

कहते हुए उसकी आँख भी छलक उठी।

फिर आँख पोंछते हुए बोली-

" अगर मुझे कहीं मोदीजी मिले तो कहूंगी-"

 इतने पैसों की बुलेट ट्रेन चलाने के बजाय, इतने पैसों से हर ट्रेन में चार-चार जनरल बोगी लगा दो, जिससे न तो हम जैसों को टिकट होते हुए भी जलील होना पड़े और ना ही हमारे मुन्ने के सौ रुपये कम हो।" 

उसकी आँख फिर छलक पड़ी।

" अरी पगली, हम गरीब आदमी हैं, हमें वोट देने का तो अधिकार है, पर सलाह देने का नहीं। रो मत।


(विनम्र प्रार्थना है जो भी इस कहानी को पढ़ चूका है उसे इस घटना से शायद ही इत्तिफ़ाक़ हो पर अगर ये कहानी शेयर करे ,कॉपी पेस्ट करे ,पर रुकने न दे शायद रेल मंत्रालय जनरल बोगी की भी परिस्थितियों को समझ सके। उसमे सफर करने वाला एक गरीब तबका है जिसका शोषण चिर कालीन से होता आया है।
   एक कोशिश परिवर्तनकीओर
                   .......एक मध्यम परिवार से,,,,,

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24.  Dipiya Jain- Confirmed with Economic Pack,   2 No. of Copies of the Book, Received all Credentials 
25.  Geetika Vijay – Complimentary, Received all Credentials, One Picture on Back Cover Page of the Book, if Possible

25 + 25 + 15 + 5 + 5 + 10 + 5 + 5 + 2 + 2 + 2 + 2 + 2 + 2 + 1 + 1 + 2 + 1 + 2  =  114 + 25  =   139 



















 Preeti Tanwar
 Sristi Sharma
 Captain Sneha Sharma
 Dr. Teena Sawhney
 Piyalee Chatterjee
 Jigna Shah
  Lt. Col Himani Thapliyal
  Neha A Rao
   Manisha 
 Mohini Chaitanya
 Captain Shalini Singh
  Anita Singh
 Major Vashita Mehra
Samieraa Yusuf
 Ruchi Malkani
 Vanshika
 Ravinder Kaur
Rinshi
 Arunima Singh
Tejal Vyas
Vineeta  Matta
 Parul Saa
 Riddhi Doshi
Jyoti Ashish Chaturvedi
  Dipiya Jain
Geetika Vijay
Paulami Ghosh
 Paulmi Ghosh
Sangeeta Jhangiani-
 Lt. Tanuja Sodhi
 Shikha Nag
 Dr. Dipikka Sanghi Gupta
 Divya Chandradhara
 Tejal R. Vasa
Aditi Parekh
 Ambika Swami-
 Dr. Esha Sharma
Poonam Vernekar-
Dr. Neeta Mhatre Mishra-
Shaily Sharma
 Ekta Ojha
Saleha Yohann
Anusha Aditya  
Kritika Sharma
Anshita Gupta
Aparna Joshi
 Shruthi Boosey Arora -
Rajani Ramachandra-
 Vandika Lamba
Priyamvada
CA Rachna Khare Srivastava
  Komal Soni
 Shamita –
Sandhya Singh –
 Kirti Veluri – Sent L3, Under Discussion
Rasika Mathur –
Shweta Bharadwaj-  Received all Credentials ,  
 Shilpi Shah – Received all credentials, 
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